The super-bummer is that it nearly always seems to go post-warranty period, which I think is one huge contributing factor to Subaru ignoring the issue. It costs them little.
I do know it's hard to make a boxer that doesn't leak or burn oil. Porsche cars have been well known for oil puddles forever, and it's only since they completely redesigned the engine with watercooling that they seem to be on track to have solved those issues. (996s do leak, but at a far less frequent rate than the air-cooled cars)
Most other cars don't have coolant or oil resting, in volumes, on gaskets, especially not top-end gaskets. A head gasket is actually a tough gasket to get right because of the pressures involved both in terms of combustion, but oil and coolant. Think about main seals: if the kid at Jiff-em-up-your-pooper Lube overfills your crankcase and the oil can get onto the main seal, it cavitates and destroys the seal. Seals and gaskets can easily get wrecked by coming in contact with the actual stuff they're sealing and gasketing
against. The boxer engines make this a real challenge.
They're also expensive to build and repair. Packaging is a real issue. But, man, the low center of gravity is so sweet.
A long time ago when we first starting buying Subarus in our family, I loved the way the cars drove, and a chunk of that is thanks to the boxer. But, I remember thinking "maybe they could slightly tilt an inline four or something, because these things are a real PITA to work on and have those PITA boxer engines issues."