I mostly see women piloting Pilots.
Wait a minute...
As a bona fide owner, I'll reiterate some comments from the past:
1. 20/20 hindsight says the Odyssey is a much more practicable vehicle and a better choice for most folk
2. The 3rd row is an offense and should be removed for secure storage a la the Ridgeline
3. The AWD only works on dry pavement up to 30 km/hr when locked in -- and doesn't come on much that I could tell on its own
4. For a $45K vehicle, some features were missing (but may be there now) such as an AUX input and heated wipers
5. We have done a dozen long trips in our Pilot with not a single issue
6. It is a comfortable, high ride
7. The boxy shape allows for great use of space in the back
8. Call it a big wagon all you want, but with the hp it has the thing can go!
Wing, you can store those headrests in the compartment under the back floor; they are designed to do so. It's much safer than your set-up.
edit: my only comment about price is that the CAN cost of accessories is offensive -- as in 40% higher than the US at least