The Tundra is a mess
I wonder what you base this on?
Have you actually driven all 4 of the full sized pick ups? (I have)
Have you actually owned any of these trucks? ( I have owned 3 of the 4)
Have you done any research re: these trucks. Most reviewers give the Tundra a good review or at worse middle of the pack. Consumers Reports has it as average for reliability (a major let down for Toyota) but all the full size trucks are average or lower.
I own a 2007 Tundra. It is the base work truck. When I bought it, I did extensive research, and drove everything. The Tundra was miles ahead in terms of standard safety equipment, engines, and transmissions. The Chev. looked much better but was a very poor design (standard cab) as it had no room behind the seats. The Ford was under powered, but really nice inside.
My point being they all have faults. The Tundra seem to have the fewest. I have owned pick ups, probably longer then you have been born, and this is my first Toyota anything. (so I'm hardly a "fan boy"). It just makes me angry when people make blankets statements about things they know nothing about.
As regards to recalls, try Googling "Ford Flame Throwers" or Ford spark plug Issues" or the always fun Chev. exploding gas tanks etc. They ALL have problems, just some less then others.