So, update time (and it's a good update):
I dropped off my truck this morning. There was a little hiccup with the rental car. They wanted me to pay for the insurance. I told them to shove it, I wasn't going to be out of pocket for a single dime because of this whole situation. It eventually got sorted and I drove away in a Rav4 Demo. Since I've already given my impressions about the previous Rav4, I'm going to skip doing it again.
Anyway, the truck was ready this afternoon. When I went to pick it up I asked them to pull it in to their drive-thru bay so I could inspect it. They seem to have done a good job. I looked at the paint very closely and couldn't find any marks, or evidence of rubbing. They got all the overspray off the windows and trim, too. I may find the odd bit of overspray here or there the next time I detail the truck myself (in the spring), but I'm sure I'll be able to get anything further off myself. In the meantime, they have done a good job. They even detailed the interior for me (not that it needed much, it was two weeks old).
So, I can confidently recommend that dealer to my friends and co-workers again.
White is really growing on me as a colour for this truck.