I drove all vans in a comparo here two years ago, and the Sedona reminded me of my last Pontiac Montana rental. Need I say more?
The Ody is fantastic but pricey, Sienna is close - depends on preferences. Pacifica feels like a premium vehicle, but is also priced like one. But: Made in Canada. I would also get the PHEV, wait for rebates, and consider lease. GC is not that bad as long as one keeps the price down.
For the record, I'm the odd minivan-owning car reviewer. Had a 2003 Ody and 2004 MPV at the same time (main and 2nd car), and we replaced the Honda with a new one in 2012.