Have a great day doing (or not doing) whatever you want (or don't want) to do.
If I may share something personal here: I lost my dad suddenly last October. He was taken by a ruptured abdominal aorta - people rarely survive that kind of thing. He was 64 years old. I didn't post in the forum at the time, because I was really struggling with the loss. I still am some days, and today is one of those days. So, if you'll indulge me...
My dad and I were very close in character and no-BS temperament. He was a hard-working, strong, moral and law-abiding man. His word was his contract with you, and he expected nothing less in return. He was supportive at all times (even if he didn't agree with what was going on), and gave you the shirt off his back if you needed it. He had a wicked prankster sense of humour, and loved the ironies of life (my personal favourite was his comment that nobody whines about global warming in January). I loved him dearly, and I know he loved me.
I'm thankful that he was at home when he started feeling ill, rather than in a car or a store or on one of his solitary walks with the dog. I'm thankful that my mother was with him while he was in the hospital. I'm thankful that the doctors did everything they could to save him, even though the situation was hopeless. I'm thankful that he was a part of my life for so many years, and that I have nothing but great memories, funny stories and no unfinished business with him.
For you, as fathers, I hope that all your children grow to be my age carrying the same love and respect for you. Yes, sometimes you have to be tough with your kids (boy, I remember those instances), but ultimately the tough lessons are the ones that are best remembered, and form the strong character that you want them to have as adults. They are truly the best gift you can give.
Have a wonderful day. And thanks for listening.