Well, this story is done but at least I think I put to rest the idea that a 15+ years old car might be an option for what I want, despite my soft spot for the E46.
I will redirect my search to find a good 2011 E90 but will start a new thread on that. I have no rush so I can wait until the right car comes along....
Theres a nice one I posted earlier in this thread Looks more legit.
Yes, I looked at that and thank you. That indeed is the kind of vehicle I'm looking for. The saddle brown interior is something I absolutely love and WANT....
I'm particular about color (no black or silver), package (no screen/navi), interior trim (aluminum), price (under $10K ideally)..... Will post my criteria in the new thread, but yes, that's the kind of car I want.