I'm shopping these as I write this. Sat in a CX-9 GT yesterday.
Mazda CX-9
Chevrolet Traverse
Ford Flex - my wife says "don't buy the hearse"
Honda Pilot - brakes, noise
2011 Toyota Seinna AWD
Toyota Highlander - too small
Nissan Pathfinder - too small
Subaru Outback - too small but would be my choice for life after kids
Hyundai Veracruz - have not considered after reading that the instrument panel is too bright at night
I use my vehicle several times a year for business trips with demo equipment in back and driving 10 to 14 hours in a day, some in the dark. There are also a couple of family trips with my wife, our two kids and sometimes one of their friends. In town I do carry a third of a soccer team from time to time. I need the room and I'd want good or great headlights for the night driving but I also want a better quality audio system for those long long drives when by myself.
To my frustration I'm finding all the manufacturers seem to have the same practice of keeping their best sound systems for their highest optioned vehicles top models. With the integration of the car's systems into into the sound system (bluetooth, steering wheel controls) I'd really rather not look to aftermarket systems. I do most of my "loud" music listening in my vehicle.
I also prefer cloth seats and no moon/sun roof as my experience has been that they leak sooner or later and I prefer the extra headroom. This would seem to point me to the CX-9 GS but there is that aftermarket audio issue.
Here's what I don't like about the Mazda. For the price you pay before adding the NAV system, you don't get a backup camera and you don't get a USB port for the audio system in any configuration. You can pay about $250 CAD extra (not including labour) to get an adapter installed that allows you to hook in your iPod, but only your iPod, no memory sticks.
It's also significantly smaller inside than the Acadia/Enclave/Traverse and the Traverse 2LT model comes with both a back-up camera and a USB port and there is a $4200 cash back on the 2010's even when financed.
The Traverse has a higher tow rating and gets better gas mileage (from what I'm reading in various forums).
The Mazda (vs the Traverse) has the better AWD system, headlights, faster 0-100, better handling, slightly better brakes and in all likely hood, better reliability though I don't trust Ford designed/influenced transmissions.
Compared to the Honda Pilot (which I briefly considered) the Mazda has great brakes and is much quieter inside but not as much room. I hope Honda addresses the brake issue with their 2011 Pilot - stops of 150 feet (46m) from 100km/hr and fading are not a good thing for a family hauler here in BC with the mountain highways and if towing a camper trailer. Most road tests of the Mazda I've seen have it stopping in about 135 feet (41m) and without fade.
Those 20" wheels of the CX-9 GT are pretty pricey for snow tires - figure another $1600 to $2000 on their own rims for those in September.
For the price Mazda is asking for their CX-9 GT, I'd rather look to the 2011 Toyota Sienna Limited AWD which is much more flexible in terms of room, gets (much?) better gas mileage, likely to be more reliable, and is about $3000 less but lacks the "zoom zoom" factor.
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